Omfg I am like so upset right now!
If you could see me right now you would probably crack up at the expression on my face. I am beet red my eyes are puffy from crying and I just want to punch something! I just got into a heated argument with my mom about slut shaming / victim blaming. She believes that if you dress provocatively or "show off your goodies" that you deserve whatever comes your way. But this is sooooooooo wrong on sooooooooooo many levels. It doesn't matter what you wear no one has the right to SEXUALLY ASSAULT / RAPE you!!!!!!!
This is such a disgusting ideal that society has embraced into a big fat bear hug! Like I simply cannot understand when and where in the hell RAPING someone is acceptable because of what they were wearing. It sickens me to my stomach that people think like this. I can't believe my own mother thinks like this. Whenever I hear someone say something like this I look at them in a totally different light. What if it was them who got raped or sexually assaulted? I'm pretty sure they wouldn't say "Well I was wearing some pretty tight jeans...and I did have on a really low cut shirt". HELL NO! They'd be ANGRY! They'd feel VIOLATED!
Women need to stop embracing this ideal of slut shaming. It could have been you! Or me who got raped by those 5 guys or by that guy who thought my friendly smile was an invitation for penetration (wrong time to point this out but I totally didn't realize that would rhyme). We need to start sticking up for our friends, cousins, sisters, etc. instead of saying "What did she have on?" or "How drunk was she?". We need to get angry and put a STOP TO THIS DISGUSTING WAY OF THINKING!!!!!!
Okay I just gave myself a massive headache with all of that ranting. I probably should do a school update in a different post but ahh I'm too lazy and after this I'm going to go sleep this headache away.
Anywaysss...Second week update. Nothing much happened in school this week except it was "Back to school spirit week". I had a lot of fun dressing up all the way from tye-dye day to blue and gold day (except I didn't go to school on Friday so I didn't participate.) Anyways this week was pretty boring. Had tons of tests and quizzes. Ugh junior year. Already some drama is occurring but I'll save all those juicy deats for another day. Ahh that's it. Still upset with mama bearr (yes I call my mother that. mind ya buisness) so I don't feel like elaborating anymore on this past week. Ugh goodnight.
Lonelygirl411 pissed off....and out!